Updates for 2003Q2 can be found in http://www.bolzern.org/journals/vj2003Q2.html 

Updates for 2003Q1 appear below with the latest information at the top.

Sunday, March 30, 8:22 pm

Another week is over and another week has started.  Does it seem to you that time is passing so fast.  Mark and I just finished watching Rudy--about New York's ex-May Guiliani (hope I spelled that correctly).  It was a good movie.  I hope it was accurate.  It did show the ups and downs of people's lives.  He wasn't perfect.  I won't say that all his actions were right.  But by viewing the TV show, I walked a mile in his mocassins.

Our ski trip went well.  It was a good day.  Mark and I arrived at Arapahoe Basin about 8:30 am.  That gave us time to find Mark's friends, get suntan lotion smeared on our faces, etc.  The slopes were great with all that snow we'd gotten.  A-Basin has an 88" base.  That doesn't mean much to me but it seems like in January it was about a 40" base.  The temperature was comfortable.

As for the skiing...I went down the baby slope a few times to get my ski-legs.  Then Mark showed up to check on me.  I told him I was ready to tackle the mountain.  Well, he thought the High Moon slope connected with the green slope.  So down we went, v-e-r-y slowly.  It never did connect but I made it all the way down without falling.  After that I sent him off and said I'd try the green Sundance slope.  I made it down twice before lunchtime.  The second time I was able to improve on some of the things that had scared me the first time.

Mark's Colorado Internet Keiretsu (what I call his business group) grilled hamburgers and hotdogs at the base of the slope for lunch.  That was neat!  I almost dozed off at the picnic table.  So I told Mark I was going back to the van to take a nap--which I did for over two hours.  When I woke up there was only an hour before we needed to head back to Denver.  Plus it was snowing heavily.  So I went down the baby slope a few more times while waiting for Mark.  Those last runs proved that it is time for me to leave my fears behind me and move on to the green slopes.

We headed back to Denver about 4 pm.  We were signed up to attend the GraceLife Conference at Exchanged Life Ministries .   My cousin Evelyn had come for some of their training in mid-November.  We really enjoyed the conference.  It was basic Christianity, explaining Man's heritage beginning with "the Fall" of Adan and Eve and how each individual has exchanged that heritage for a new life in Christ.  This concept isn't new but certainly explained things in such a simple way.  

More later!

Thursday, March 27, 12:37 pm

Virginia's View #12 has been posted.

Wednesday, March 26, 8:00 pm

It's been a busy week.  Many people are still digging out from the storm.  We expect more snow tomorrow.  I hope it will not be a bad storm as Mark and I plan to go skiing on Friday with his business group.  I plan to practice in the morning and then get Mark to take me on the green slope in the afternoon.  Having confidence is something I want to work on.

My week has been busy.  I'm working on accounting.  Tomorrow I have a meeting with friends to begin organizing a retreat for the women of our church.  There is a lot to discuss; I do hope it will be feasible.  Potential date is an issue.

Tonight I will attend a meeting hosted by Hosanna Christian Fellowship.  I have been enjoying attending meetings hosted by other groups so we can share information with each other.  I threw together some beanie weanies last night.  Hope the flavors all meld by this evening. 

Saturday, March 22, 7:29 am

Greetings on this sunny morning.  Yesterday was beautiful.  The snow is melting.  Mark cleared the snow behind the van and made it out to the street.  So we should be able to get out when we need to today.

I've been working on "stuff" for Women's Ministry.  Someone suggested that in some cases women aren't having opportunities to spend much time talking to their Secret Sisters.  Mine certainly haven't because I haven't been at church since the day we drew names.  In order to help out the situation, we decided to make a Secret Sisters Questionnaire with questions that might help someone.  (You'll have to scroll down to the section where the questionnaire is at the bottom of the file.)  If nothing else, I hope the questionnaire might stimulate some conversation between any of the ladies.  I wish we had thought of this earlier so we could have passed it out on the day we drew names.

I think half the fun that people are having is trying to figure out who their "Sister" is.  Two women think they got each other.  I think I know who mine is and I'll be totally shocked if it is someone else.  I've tried to be creative in the types of gifts I've given to mine.  Last I heard she hadn't yet figured it out.  So far only one person (that we know of) has not received anything.  We're assuming her SS might be the lady who suddenly had a couple of family problems and illness in another state.

Last week I made up a card and gift (Big Lots had cookies and candy packets ranging from 19c to 33c) for each of the ladies who did not participate in Secret Sisters.  I wrote an individualized note saying something like we hope they can join us for the Sharing Sisters or welcome to the congregation (we have a couple of new people), etc.  Yes, it was a lot of work but worth it.  Letter writing is something I enjoy so it wasn't too hard to dash off 13 cards.  The Ladies Prayer Group got a card back from someone saying how much the card/gift was appreciated.  She knew that several women of the prayer group work with Women's Ministry.

In case you are wondering about the friend who hadn't received anything yet.  On the phone when she jokingly said next time I might have to include her in the special gift/cards.  I said "Oh, you haven't looked in the pocket of your purse."  (I'd hid a card/gift to her behind a big white paper in the outside pocket of her purse.  She hadn't noticed it behind the paper.)  So she got something even if it wasn't from her SS.  

Well, I've got to move on.  I have to fold some construction paper.  I'm going to ask one of the teens who mades draws designs for cards to make some for our next meeting.

Friday, March 21, 9:00 pm

After Mark cleared the snow from behind the van so we could/can get it out when we need it, we went back over to the park for sledding.  I have to say that I was too scared at first to try it by myself.  It was pretty bumpy and there were a lot of kids that I was afraid of running in to.  After I observed for a while I was able to go down.  (The problem was that going down on the stomach, head-first seemed to be the best way to do it.)  It was a little scary but fun.

I noticed my legs feel a little wobbly this evening from the unaccustomed exercise.  Walking through over a foot of snow can be tiring.  It was a perfect day for sledding.  Warm and sunny with plenty of snow.  We'd better enjoy it while we have it.

Thursday, March 20, 6:10 pm

Virginia's Views #11 has been posted.

Thursday, March 20, 6:00 pm

The snow stopped yesterday afternoon.  Mark cleared the sidewalk this afternoon; that's quite a job as we live on a corner.  He decided that we could wait until tomorrow before digging out the van.  Hopefully a lot of melting will occur before then.  I haven't heard the latest "official" depth.  The weatherwoman said 29.3 inches at last count at the airport.  Evergreen in the foothills was 50 inches yesterday morning with continuing snow fall.

All our activities have been cancelled for tonight and tomorrow.  But we anticipate everything will be operational by the weekend for church activities.

Wednesday, March 19, 5:58 am

Good morning!  I went up to check on the snow conditions.  Winds have drifted the snow everywhere.  I can't get out to the place where I was measuring snow.  The news said the southeast Aurora has 26.5 inches.  More should come today.  Traffic is moving very slowly.  Everything is closed.  Yesterday we were still hoping that we'd be able to have our various activities on Thursday.  But I don't see that happening.

I guess I don't remember the blizzard of 1997 being so bad because we got out with the 4 wheel drive truck  with big tires and made it to the office.  Mark picked up several employees who lived within range.  Since we got phonecalls from all over the world, we continued with business as usual and didn't pay much attention to what was going on outside.  It's kind of nice that this time my office is at home with me so I don't have to drive but still can do what needs to be done.

Tuesday, March 18,  8:09 pm

We're experiencing what other states sometimes go through.  I just checked the height of the snow on top of the A/C unit.  It was 17 inches.  Another 8 inches possible tonight.  They're  expecting nearly everything to be closed tomorrow.  (Things rarely close here.)  The phone lines have been humming with people calling to cancel activities.  They say this is to be the worst storm since the blizzard of 1997.  The wind is expected to get up tomorrow so that should be interesting when it all starts drifting.  Mark and I went out and shoveled the front sidewalk even though it was a thankless task.  Afterward we trudged through the snow to a hill in the park and sledded down a few times.  That was fun.

Thought I'd let you know what was/is happening here.  For the most part, I enjoyed listening to tapes of my Bible Classes and did some reading.  It was a nice lazy day.

Tuesday, March 18, 7:13 am

According to the weatherwoman, we have 3-7" in Denver, more in the foothills.  In looking outside, it looks probably about 6" on the airconditioner.  Mark went out to a men's prayer breakfast.  So he'll tell me about conditions when he gets back.  Snow is to continue all day, getting as much more as we've already got.  It will be messy by evening.  We have Wednesday evening church but I don't have any personal plans until Thursday morning.  It sure is nice to be able to stay in.

Monday, March 17, 2:16 pm

I woke up with a sinus headache, totally stopped up.  Mark prayed for me and the headache immediately went away and my nose keeps "draining."  So I feel on the road to recovery.

Our meeting last night was so inspiring.  Even though the conference was over, Pastor Charles was still teaching at the evening church service at In His Presence.  We'd never been at one of their services before and this wasn't necessarily a typical service.  We had wonderful worship with a live band and everyone singing enthusiastically.  They asked for testimonies of how people had been blessed during the week after attending any of the sessions.  I guess the most moving to me was the woman who had asked for prayer Friday night,  asking for a miracle of a new breast.  She'd had a mastectomy a couple of years ago.  She didn't give details but now says she has a filled out breast instead of "flat." I wish every women who has had this type of surgery could have this type of miracle.

I just got back from lunch with a group of us who used to attend church together.  We've gone different paths but still like to get together occasionally.  One of the ladies who was able to come this time was Linda Neff whose husband was our pastor when I was about 12 years old.  So that was neat to see her again.  Our paths don't cross very often.

Winter may be finally coming to Denver.  The forecast is that conditions are right for a major snowstorm to hit during the night.   They're saying we may get several feet of snow.  Personally, even though it could be inconvenient, I'm praying for it.  We need the moisture so badly.  Mark and I drink bottled water so hopefully Mark can go out this afternoon and get more.  We're down to our last five gallons.  Otherwise, we've got plenty of food in the freezer.  We'll be fine as long as the electricity stays on.  Otherwise, I guess we'll be cooking over a candle.  Our fireplace hasn't been used in so many years...   This is so interesting to be thinking about snow considering it was 70 degrees on Saturday.

Well, folks,  I'd better move on to my next activity.  The day is getting away from me.

Sunday, March 16, 5:21 pm

Hi, Friends...I hope all has been going well for you since I last wrote.  I've had some very full days.  Mark and I have been attending a Miracle conference given by Charles Ndifon of Christ Love Ministries International .  I had never heard of him until last Sunday; we saw a flyer advertising his Miracle Conference.  We decided to attend in hopes that we might see some healing in our lives.

And indeed we did, although not in a way we might have expected.  His message is that we must keep our eyes upon Jesus.  He came to this earth in love for us.  He was crucified, taking our sins and diseases upon himself so that we might live.  Do we really believe that Christ is the same yesterday, today and forever?  If so, we need to read the Bible and believe what it says.  Christ went about healing the sick; therefore, we should believe that healing is for today.   The class sessions were filled with teachings about Jesus and what he did while on earth.  For me, it gave me increased understanding of the Gospel and Christ (God on earth).

It was clear to us through this conference that the anointing and power seen in the first century church is alive and well.  And if we will only open our minds and hearts to believe, we can participate in it.  Mark and I saw a number of people who were healed during the three days of the conference.  While many cases cannot be substantiated, I did know a few people personally.  One friend who suffers from Macular Degeneration is seeing better today; another lady who couldn't lift her arm because of a problem with the rotator cuff can now reach to the heavens in praise of God.  One of the most dramatic healings was a young woman with depression.   She looked ill, like the burden of the world was upon her.  The first night, she went forward for prayer.  She began to look visibly better.  The next night she looked better.  The third night she came in looking like a new woman; her clothes were neat and she had a smile on her face.  She again went forward for prayer about a neck injury.  She later testified that she had gone to the first meeting thinking nothing could help her and intended to commit suicide that night.  Now her whole life had changed; she showed us the additional healing to her neck, shoulders and back.  I've seen severely depressed people before so I do believe this woman's story and certainly can testify to the change in her.

In answer to the unspoken question, I haven't seen any manifestation of healing from the cancer. However, I still believe that I will see it.   I do testify that the problem I was having with my left thumb since January is suddenly better.  Yesterday evening, it was really hurting and wouldn't bend much.  It is now moving at the normal range of motion with only a little stiffness when fully extended.  It saddens me that more people didn't take advantage of these wonderful teachings.  Even if one wasn't looking for physical healing, the sessions were informational and inspiring.  For a taste of the content, check this link .

Well, we're off to an evening service.  Talk to you again soon.

Tuesday, March 11, 3:27 pm

Virginia's Views #10 has been posted.

Tuesday, March 11, 2:08 pm

I had a lovely time at the Women's Conference in Colorado Springs.  It was wonderful.  I was able to fellowship with several people I knew from past meetings.  Also, Aleana Winter who recently moved from Aurora to Colorado Springs came over to the hotel to see me.  That made the time even more special.  

The theme of the weekend seemed to be Personal Vision.  Karen Duncan, the Director of Pastoral Care of Women at New Life Church in Colorado Springs, was the main speaker.    She was encouraging us to look inside ourselves and find out our visions/hopes/dreams that God has given us and to fulfill them by using the potential he's given us and the gifts of the Spirit.  You may review my Notes  from the conference if you wish.

Life is keeping me busy.  I've been extremely tired lately.  I think things are kind of caving in after all the stresses of being gone and other things.  Seems like our schedule has suddenly gotten busy.    So I'm feeling a little overwhelmed.  I feel like I need more quiet time alone.  I've had too much being around people lately.    I'm trying to chain myself to my desk and shut out the distractions.  Every little thing I get done is one more thing that isn't nagging at me.

Thursday, March 6, 10:30 am

Virginia's Views #9 has been posted.

I'm sorry it has taken me so long to get something written after getting back from our trip.  I do plan to continue adding links regarding the Fruit of the Spirit as posted in V's Views #8  I will let you know when links have been added.

Thursday, March 6, 8:38 am

I still haven't heard how my aunt is doing.  Hopefully I'll hear something from my father today.

It is nice to be home after a long hard trip.  We received notification that the inventory we loaded last week did arrive safely.  (It took hours to unload.)  We can use prayers that the man reselling for/with us can get everything sorted out and stuff will start selling quickly so he'll feel good about making this deal with us.  Randy is a former competitor with whom we've always had a good relationship; we wanted to do business with him again.  Our site, http://www.linuxmall.com currently points to his business site.  Mark has to get the servers back up (they're currently in our den).  Thought you might be interested to see the type of business we were in for so many years.

This has been a busy week.  Trying to get back into the swing of things after being gone for 2 1/2 weeks.  I'm headed to a women's conference in Colorado Springs tomorrow.  This is also sponsored by Charis  Bible College.  

That's all for now.  "Talk to you later."

Tuesday, March 4, 9:36 am

My aunt Colleen Willard is having colon surgery today.  I wish her well and pray for everything to go well and a quick recovery.

I spent yesterday catching up--still have several more loads of laundry to do as well as bills to pay.  I was excited to sort the mail from while we were gone and find cards from Elly Ullom and Sandra Hodges.  It's so nice to get personal mail among all the bills.

Our weekends are kind of full because we are now attending church on both Saturday and Sunday.  We have been attending the House of Faith on Saturday for years.  For some time, we have visited other churches and have benefited from the fellowship and teachings.  We've enjoyed Hosanna Christian Fellowship and have decided to worship there as well.  It makes for a long weekend but a very exciting and spirit-filled time.

I also want to lift up the Culpepper family.  My friend Dianne's father passed away last night with  complications after heart surgery.  It is hard to lose a loved one.

It's hard to get back into the swing of things after being gone for so long.  I finished one class from our correspondence course sessions and will be starting a new topic.  It's exciting to learn.

Saturday, March 1, 6:46 pm

Thought I'd write an update about the Secret Pal activity I mentioned this morning.   Several weeks ago, I had an idea about doing a Secret Pal activity.  While I was writing it up, we found out we would be gone on a business trip to Houston.  My friends Carolee and Connie volunteered to present it to the women.

We got back Thursday night.  Carolee and Connie were discouraged about the poor response (5 commitments) they had to their introduction.  Lots of people had questions and concerns (we had thought this was a no-brainer).   Therefore, they decided it better to wait until I got back before moving forward.  After putting our heads together, I wrote a revised instruction sheet.  

This morning I handed out a new  paper with changes from the suggestions that had been made and invited everyone to a meeting after church.   To make a long story short, we had 26 turn up at our meeting to draw names.  Out of 36 women in the congregation, that's wonderful participation--we even had one lady come who has never participated in any of our activities.  

If you wish to use the idea, I have put both information sheets on the web at http://www.bolzern.org/MinStuff/WMsisters.html    You can use the idea and adapt the information to your Women's Ministry organization.

Still in Beautiful Texas.  Mark and I are keeping busy.  We had a great day yesterday with Kathleen; enjoyed meeting Robert and the girls.    It was great to be able to worship with friends during a trip.

Mark and I are continuing to work on packing for shipping.  We hope to be able to order the truck before the end of the day.  

This morning my cousin Jim came over to the warehouse to meet us.  Getting together just hadn't worked.  It was great to see him.  It's been over 20 years since the last time.  Hope it won't be that long until the next time.  I also was able to talk to Cousin Carolyn on the telephone after lunch.

With that, I'll sign off.  Hope all is going well for all of you.

Sunday, February 23, 6:42 am

Greetings from Beautiful Texas.  We've been having delightful rain.  The locals may not think it so great.  But since we so rarely get rain in Colorado, being in the damp is great.

We're still waiting for paperwork; although we've been able to move ahead with packing loose items for shipping.   Mark got to lift the heavy items; I mostly stuffed things in boxed.  However, I was still grateful for the months of weight lifting and exercising.

Unfortunately, they aren't letting us into the warehouse over the weekend.  Yesterday we enjoyed just lazing around (I took two naps) and then met the Elledges for dinner.  Today we're going to church with Kathleen's family and hopefully later to see cousin Jim.  Then to bed early so we can be well-rested to continue packing.

Thursday was a delight.  We had lunch with Kathleen.  Then later, I was able to make contact with Becky West Hudson with whom I'd lost touch.  We were friends in the mid-60s and have written off and on over the years.  This trip has been wonderful to re-establish contact with my Texas friends.

I want to give a brief tribute to our friend Charlie McCulloch (age 80) who suddenly passed away last Monday. Although we've known him for years, we'd come to appreciate him through mutual participation in our church "cell" group.  This small group gave a chance to come to know him.  We regret that we could not be present to attend the funeral and extend our love to Flo and his children. Charlie will be missed.  

Thursday, February 20, 8:14 am

Hi, friends!  Just checking in from Houston.  Mark and I enjoyed our "conference" in Colorado Springs and then hot-footed it to Texas.  We're enjoying being here.  The temperatures are coolish; we thick-blooded Coloradans are running around in our tshirts.

Our business here is moving along.  We've been doing an inventory in a large warehouse.  Now we're waiting for some official paperwork to come through so are having a few hours of down time.    We arranged for internet access so I can do a posting and answer a few emails.

Yesterday evening we drove about 50 miles to Lake Jackson, Texas to visit my aunt Maxine Prindle.  It was wonderful to see her again.  Although we correspond regularly via email, we haven't seem each other much over the years.  In recent times, we've been meeting at funerals.  Uncle Hershel died while I was in the hospital last year; so we didn't want to miss seeing Aunt Maxine since we were so close.  I'm hoping to see my second cousin Jim while we're in town; his mother is Maxine's and Daddy's cousin.  Another set of friends we hope to connect with is the George Elledge family whom Mark knew when they lived in Alaska.

My friend Kathleen Lebedz is coming to visit this morning.  We've been corresponding for months but have never met.  I'm so grateful for my email friends and for opportunities to meet.

I know those are very few details about what keeps our hours filled.  It's impossible to tell everything in a short amount of time.  Maybe a few more details once we ourselves know the next plan.

Hope you all have fun until I can write again.  Love to everyone!!!

Thursday, February 12, 12:30 pm

Virginia's Views #8 has been posted.

Will write when we get back.  Thanks for your prayers.

Wednesday, February 12, 8:56 pm

We finally got the confirmation that we need to be in Houston by morning of the 18th.  We'll leave from Colorado Springs.  Tonight I'm working my way through the list of things to do before I can leave.  We'll leave some time in the afternoon.  I'm hoping to post a Virginia's Views before I depart.  Guess I'll post what I have and know you all remember that it's a Work in Progress.  I got that term when I used to belong to an online writer's group.

I don't know if we'll be able to see family are friends during our travels.   Aunt Maxine lives southeast of Houston, Cousin Jim and Cousin Carolyn live somewhere in Houston.  And I have assorted other friends along the route whose phone numbers and addresses I have put in my Palm Pilot.  If I do miss someone, please know that it's not because I didn't want to.  When doing business, one just has to go with the flow and can't always do personal wishes.

Tuesday, February 11, 7:41 pm

This morning I exercised, then fell asleep on the CBC video so I went to bed for a 3 hour nap.  Since then I've been doing laundry, email, dinner and sundry other things.  Trying to start packing for our trip.  Seems like there's never enough time to remember all the things like stopping the paper, getting the key to our house sitter, etc.

I've gone off the blood pressure medication to see what it would do.  Lest you worry, I am continuing to carefully monitor it as I assured the doctor I am doing.  If it goes up, I'll certainly go back on the medication.  It seems to stay down to a reasonable level as long as I don't let myself get too worked up about things.  In fact, this morning it was a nice lowish normal.    I've been taking garlic and other things--trying not to breath on people.  It will be interesting to see what the doctor says next time we discuss bp.  It had been low normal (on medication) the last time I had an appointment.  Then it went up and now it has gone down again.  As usual I appreciate your prayers and praises that this health issue has been overcome.

Monday, February 10, 6:27 am

Virginia's Views #7 has been posted.

Monday, February 10, 4:51 am

We had a lovely weekend.  Yes, it was a busy one as I indicated it would be on Saturday.  It was nice for a spiritual walk with God--we were able to go to a variety of church activities that were uplifting.

Mark and I will be finding out shortly if we need to make a trip to Houston.  There is some unfinished business with the company we used to own.  I'll certainly let you know if we will be gone.  That is, we will be gone at the end of this week to Colorado Springs to attend the Charis Bible College open house.  But we may extend the trip to include parts of Texas.

Saturday, February 8, 8:02 am

I'm trying to get myself going.  We stayed at the party until almost 11:00.  Had a wonderful time; seemed like everyone was just happy to be there and willing to talk to people they didn't know.  That always makes it fun when people "mix."  I only ate two cookies (we won't talk about healthfulness of potato chips) and concentrated on the vegetable platter.  So I didn't blow my diet too badly.

Yesterday was a busy day.  After my Bible Study (which was really good yesterday--gave me some things to think about) I ran errands which took most of the afternoon.  Then I had time to take a short nap and do a few things before we went to the party. 

Today will also be a full day.  Mark has gone to a Men's Ministry meeting this morning.  I hope he will enjoy the special speaker who will be talking about Discipleship.  After church I'll be going to our cell group meeting.  That should be uplifting as we learn to praise God.

So my friends, I hope everyone will have a wonderful weekend.

Friday, February 7, 5:37 am

Good morning!  I woke up too early.  But have been using the time to pray and study.  I was able to finish another of the correspondence lessons this morning.  Mark and I have really been enjoying these Bible Studies.  Learning some new things and confirming other beliefs.  At the end of next week, we're going down to Colorado Springs.  Charis Bible College is having a three day event for people who want to know more about the school, being able to attend some classes and meet everybody.  It'll be more social for us but we thought we'd enjoy it plus get to hear the special speaker in the evening.

Yesterday evening was different than anticipated.  Elly called that she had dropped something on her foot and was having difficulty walking.  So I went over to where she was staying with aloe vera and bandages.  Hopefully it's feeling better today.  We had a nice visit and I was able to meet other friends who came by to bring her some groceries.  So I did have a good evening.

This evening we have a surprise birthday party to attend.  During the weekend, we'll attend two church services and our cell group meeting.  Other than that, I hope to continue house cleaning.  I have the tendency to let that slide and then have to really work at it.  Any suggestions on how to convince oneself to clean a little bit every day?

Thursday, February 6, 2:32 pm

We awoke to more snow this morning.  My prayers have been answered.  We desperately need moisture in Colorado.  So I keep praying for snow--and praying for safety in the snow.  They forecasted we could have up to 6 inches.  It looks pretty clear outside.  A friend told me the streets are pretty clear.  I should say that means the main streets.  Residential ones like ours might take a day or two to melt.
 
This is a busy day.  I slept well last night, woke up early, exercised, etc.  I'm working my way down a list of things that need doing.  There's laundry in the washer.  I'm paying bills and making phone calls and trying to gather together an order for the co-op in which I participate (multi-tasking, ha, ha).  Later this evening, my friend Elly Ullom is supposed to come visit.  She's in town to work with Habitat for Humanity for a few weeks.  I'm looking forward to getting to see her.  Elly lives about four hours away so we don't get to visit too often.

Another thing I've been doing lately is getting back in touch with old friends.  My elementary school friend, Martha House McLemore, sent a Christmas card.  The last time I wrote her, the letter came back.  So I was thrilled to hear from her; our friendship spans 38 years.  I also located my high school friend with a phone call to what I hoped was still her husband's place of work.  So Debbie Keener and I are back in touch.  It's wonderful to have friends for so many years.  I also appreciate college friends with whom I still correspond.

Wednesday, February 5, 12:24 pm

Virginia's Views #6 has been posted.

Wednesday, February 5, 12:07 pm

I neglected to say that I am feeling fine after my skiing experience.  My upper thigh isn't overly hurting any more.  My neck muscles didn't hurt as much after this last lesson either.  I was back at the gym this morning.  We only did our favorite aerobic machine because of time constraints.  Next week we'll start back with the wieght lifting.  

Monday, February 3, 4:41 pm

The weekend sure went quickly.  Mark and I drove up to Keystone Saturday morning.  I had my lesson.  It went well.  This time we had five women and the instructor; again I was the oldest.  I was interested to see how he managed to get us down the mountain.  It was enjoyable.  After lunch, Mark and I went back up the mountain.  I got about halfway down before wimping out.  I fell a couple of times and stretched one of the upper inner thigh muscles.  Even though it felt strained, not damaged, it still freaked me out with this "steep" hill coming up.  So Mark put me between his skis and skied me down the mountain.  He's hoping that some day I'll be able to go down at that pace on my own.  It took about ten minutes with him doing the steering.   It probably would have taken me an hour or more.

We stopped at the grocery store for a BenGay clone.  I rubbed that on my leg several times during the rest of the weekend.  We had other activities to do yesterday.  In the afternoon while I napped, the winter storm moved in.  It was beautiful to see the Rocky Mountains in the falling snow.  This was the largest snowstorm we've had this year.  Both evenings we were invited to join the Armstrong's at their condo.  Each year some of Andre's high school friends gather for a reunion.  They were nice enough to include us in their evening activities--I enjoyed not having to go somewhere for meals.  Since we have a four-wheel drive, it didn't bother us to drive up the mountain to the condo.  The Armstrong tradition is to watch Bill Murray's Ground Hog Day on Feb. 2nd.  It was hilarious.

I didn't sleep well last night so begged off attempting to ski today.  I know Mark was disappointed. But as lousy as I felt....I didn't want to tackle the big slopes.  Also, my left thumb was really acting disjointed.  It has been feeling odd all day.  We considered stopping at A-Basin where they have a short beginner slope but decided to continue on home.

Had a phone call from the bank that some paperwork for online banking needed to be filled out.  Just red tape since we've been doing it for months.  However, it was nice that we could get that taken care of today.   We've had a light dinner and I'll be heading to the prayer group shortly.

Friday, January 31, 4:59 pm

Returned home from my morning study via my Aunt and Uncle's nursing home .  I drive by there every week but often the timing isn't right.  Today I thought I might catch them just after lunch but before their afternoon nap.  Which is exactly what happened.  We went to Uncle Max's room and visited.  It was nice to catch up on some of the family news.

I've been working on plans for our various Women's Ministry projects.  It's exciting to see things come together.  I hope to be able to foster unity among the women and that we can give support to the church and church projects.  My latest brainchild is to a short secret pal activity.  That's not a new concept but hopefully I can make some novel suggestions on how to do it.

This afternoon I'm trying to pack for our weekend in the mountains.  I almost have the clothes packed.  Cleaning the kitchen is basically what's left.  All my friends are asking if I am "liking" skiing.  I don't know that I can say that I like it but I am enjoying the outdoors and the beauty of it.

So as I'm enjoying the beauty this weekend, I'll think of you and be appreciating your prayers for my safety.

Love,  Virginia

Wednesday, January 29, 9:49 am

Virginia's Views #5 has been posted.   Happy reading!

Wednesday, January 29, 5:20 am

Another morning!  I hope everyone had a more restful night than I did.  Didn't think anything was on my mind but I sure tossed and turned.  I woke up thinking about getting back on my diet.  I was really good there and the last few days I've had popcorn, bagels and several other things that aren't the best.

My hands are swollen again this morning but yesterday evening I noticed the ring I was wearing was looser.  So I tried my wedding ring.  I was able to get it on--getting it off wasn't as easy.  But it did give me hope that this problem may be improving.

Tuesday, January 28, 7:43 pm

I had an appointment with the oncologist today.  We didn't take any blood tests this time.  He said they don't always tell you a lot and as long as the cancer appears to be shrinking, we might as well wait.  He did accede that my nutritional program seems to be helping in concert with the estrogen blocker that I'm taking.  He looked surprised when I said that I'm feeling so good that I am learning how to ski.  I assume they don't have too many patients saying that.

We had talked about going skiing on Sunday but I told Mark that Friday skiing and Saturday activities had worn me out.  We're going to go this weekend.

We had our Women's Ministry Soup and Salad luncheon this past Saturday.  We had a good turnout for our small congregation.  Everyone participated well in the discussion.  In an email sent to our pastor, my friend Connie wrote "Another highlight was sharing our favorite scripture and then expressing why it was a powerful word in our personal life.  That brought up interesting, and private insights.  We had to have a certain trust level among ourselves and vulnerability going to share at this level."  We also discussed future activities.  We want to plan a special project for Father's Day to honor the men of the church.  Also, we'll explore the possibilities of a retreat.

Friday, January 24, 6:51 pm

Made it back to Denver about 6 pm; took the skis back to the rental place on the way home.  Rentals were part of this lesson package.  We bought skis at Gart Brothers years ago; figured I should use some of the rental ones with wider, more rounded tips.  The instructors nearly freaked out when they saw Mark's Olin Mark IVs; they're considered almost historical at this point.  But he used them for free style skiing years ago so was excited when he found another pair at a garage sale; he likes the tipped up ends.

Today was different.  I started out with one instructor and then they moved the people who were comfortable with the ski lift to another instructor.  I ended up with 5 guys.  My guess as to ages was that I was the oldest as well as the only female in our group.  I did fine as long as we stayed on the bunny hill.  My energy was flagging by the time our teacher decided to take us up on the mountain.  I was the first one to wipe out--with a hard knock to the head.  They got me up and said to let them know if I started feeling odd in any way.  I decided not to tell them I'd had major surgery less than six months ago.  I was so exhausted (and fell a couple more times) that it wasn't easy.  The instructor had to coach me down in several sections that were steeper.  The fellows were very encouraging.  Other than having to wait for me to catch up since I was slower...they acted like they were having a good time.

After a late lunch, I returned to the bunny slope and made several runs with the conveyor lift and then the chair life to practice things we'd learned during the morning.  (The lesson was only a half day.)  I again ran out of energy after about an hour so decided to quit while I was ahead.   I had a good time wandering around, talking to people, eyeballing the clothes in the ski shop, etc.; Mark came to pick me up about 4:38 p.m.  We made real good time back to Denver as the roads were clear.  

The good news is that I don't seem to have sustained any lasting damage.  My abdominal muscles are a little sore; I've been doing exercises as well as the skiing.  I'm planning to go soak in the hot tub for a little while.  That should be fun and relaxing anyway.

I'll get up in the morning and finish printing things for Women's Ministry before leaving tomorrow morning.  I'm looking forward to having a fun day with our various activities.  Hope you all have a good weekend!!!!

Friday, January 24, 6:17 am

I'm up early (as usual) but preparing to rush out the door.  Mark and I are headed to Keystone.  I'll be there taking a lesson while he goes on to A-Basin to ski with his business group.  Weather should be coolish but comfortable today.

I've been keeping busy.  This weekend is our next church Women's Ministry luncheon.  I made the soup which I volunteered to take yesterday.  Creamy potato cheese.  It simply boiling together cubed potatoes, carrot pieces and celery chunks, then putting in some herbs/spices and milk/cream.  Then cheese.  The recipe calls for some chedder but you can add other kinds.  Next time I think I'll try putting in some chicken broth.

That's all for now.  I hope you have a wonderful day.

Thursday, January 23, 9:00 pm

Mark and I are hosting a Bible Study to begin the first Thursday evening in March.  If you live in the Denver area and might be interested, we'd be happy to have you attend.  Please read Bible Study Invitation.

Wednesday, January 22, 12:40 pm

Virginia's Views #4 has been posted.

Wednesday, January 22, 7:19 am

It's a foggy and cold morning here in Colorado.  We've been having beautiful days.  Which unfortunately means that we haven't been having the precipitation we need to ensure plenty of water next summer.  It's been so warm that the trees are trying to bud.  I noticed yesterday that my rose bush that is sheltered by the house has put out some new leaves.  It probably had a shock this morning when the temp went down to the low 20s.  

I had a funny pain in my breast this morning. Nothing I can specifically comment about.  The interesting thing after having been in the hospital with such a major "illness"...it's hard not to notice every little symptom.  I try not to worry about it and anticipate that something is wrong.  Letting fear into ones heart is to be avoided.  I'm just making a list of questions to ask the doctor at my appointment next week.

Otherwise, I'm doing pretty well.  I'm being thrilled that I'm not too sore after the all day ski lesson.  I'm looking forward to going on Friday.  Maybe I should clarify that.  I'm enjoying the challenge and desiring to share something my husband loves to do.  I had a bad experiences on the ski slope 25 and 16 years ago which didn't endear me to the sport.  So I am having a chance to conquer my fears.  Plus get good exercise.  After losing so much weight earlier in the year, I ate more liberally than I should have during the fall and am again watching what I eat.  Besides, I should be eating dishes that are helpful for my condition and avoiding excess fats and sugars.  I read a book once about a woman who had recovered from breast cancer; she said that eating properly and exercising gave her an exquisite figure.  We can always hope!!

Well, I'm still working on my long list of things to do.  One thing at a time.  Have a good day!

Tuesday, January 21, 7:08 am

I started to type Monday.  After playing all day yesterday, it doesn't seem like it should already be Tuesday.  I wrote up a Things-to-Do list so I can "get a move on."  Fortunately, I'm not too sore; I do expect to stiffen up some as the day progresses.

Overall it was a good day.  My lessons went well.  Having gone skiing with Connie last week helped.  Things she taught me helped what the teacher said make sense.  And things the teacher said expanded upon Connie's methods.  The lesson essentially went over the same things Connie and I did.  Duh!  Basically, a beginner learns to slide down the hill with a wedge/snowplow, and then to make turns.  It was gratifying to not be the worst student.  Those of you who know me well may remember how unathletic I am--or should I say "used to be."  I still don't claim to be athletic but I sure am stronger and more capable than I when younger.

In case you haven't figured it out, this is the year I'm determined to learn to ski.  Mark hasn't had many opportunities to go over these years since we've been married.  Between limited finances and my inability to ski.  Since he belongs to a business group that has a ski outing a month, Mark is now able to go with some people who are on his level.  I've felt bad over the years that I didn't want to go.  I had a couple of bad ski experiences years ago that made me so scared.  Last year, Connie asked me to go one day with a ticket she had.  She figured that I had my own skis sitting in the closet so I wouldn't have rental costs.  That day was a very good experience.  From the beginning, I decided I wasn't going to let my fear get the best of me.  And if I knew I was going to fall, to let myself be limp and not tense up.  That worked pretty well.  I wish I could say that I became an expert at "getting up" after a fall.  I don't have enough strength to heave myself up.  Yesterday I resorted to taking my skis off.  That worked!

I'm not hurting too badly after yesterday's adventure.  I only fell one time.  That was a hard landing on packed snow.  My derriere does feel a little bruised.  I haven't said anything about my health lately.  It's much the same: the tumor is slowly shrinking; my blood pressure is not good but not horrible either; I'm having quite a bit of sinus drainage but haven't had any major sinus headaches; my hands are still swelling and stiff, especially the left one; the muscle of my left thumb still tightens up and hurts.  I'd say those things involve both Praise to God and Requests.  As always, I appreciate prayers.

I've appreciated the feedback I've gotten.  It's gratifying to know that you are reading my postings.   Several have said that you check this file regularly.  I love sharing my life with you.  

Happy Tuesday!!!

Sunday, January 19, 6:08 pm   

It has been a pleasant but busy weekend.  We had a church potluck and "business" meeting in addition to our regular survices.  That was fun but made it a long day.  Today we went to one of the mega churches that is close to us.  The pastor spoke about jealousy and how it affects us spiritually and physically.  Very good sermon; something we could all apply.

I let the batteries go dead accidentally on my Palm Pilot.  We're hoping we can resurrect the information without having to retype it all.  I haven't lost email addresses but I lost a lot of physical addresses and phone numbers.  

Mark realized that tomorrow is a holiday.  So we're going to Keystone tomorrow so I can start my ski lessons.  I'm doing laundry this evening so all my clothes are clean.  It was beautiful today.  I expect there will be a lot of people on the slopes.  I'm grateful for all the exercising I've done these last couple of years.  I noticed it isn't near as tiring as it used to be.  I did take a long nap this afternoon so I can be fully rested.

I'm working on my Virginia's Views for this week and will let you know when it is posted later this week.

Friday, January 17, 7:13 am

Since I didn't post yesterday, you probably wondered if I survived the day on the mountains.  I'll give you a quick rundown of the day.  If you checked the weather that day, you may have seen that the Colorado mountains was cold, snowy and windy.  Brrrrrr!  There were "white out" conditions at times.  I'll have to say that in some ways, it was kind of nice because poor weather caused less people to be on the slopes.  So I had less people to be worrying about as I slipped and slid from point A to point B.

Actually, this was a good ski experience.  We got a late start and then had to drive more slowly than normal.  It was almost noon by the time we got to the slopes and got our tickets.  We were able to get discount tickets through a special promotion by one of the local radio stations.  What a blessing!  We decided to eat lunch before heading to the slopes.  I was all for that since I usually run out of energy quickly.

Mark, Aaron and Sean went to the intermediate slopes.  Because the day ended up being short, they never made it to the black slopes.  Connie and I headed over to the green "family" slopes.  From our ski outing about this time last year, we decided to start with the easiest run over by the ski school.  The lift person confirmed which run was best to use for starting.  I'm still learning how to get on and off the lifts.  I don't know why those are such a challenge to me.  

I remembered some of Connie's teachings from last year.  We went down the lower Roundabout run three times.  Then we decided to be brave (actually, I needed to be brave; Connie wasn't even working up a sweat) and take the second additional lift to the top of upper Roundabout.  By that time the snow was really piling up and getting cold.  I think we only saw about three people on that run.  

Up to that point, by taking it slowly and easily, I hadn't fallen down.  Mark always says "A day that you don't fall down is a day you don't learn anything."  Halfway down Upper Roundabout, I got to going too fast and got nervous so did a major wipeout.   I'd told my friend Ester that I would laugh every time I fell.  So Connie and I agreed that if she heard me laughing she'd know I was okay instead of injured. My theory is that sometimes it's better just to give up, relax and fall rather than stressing out any maybe having a worse accident by being too tense.  A nice man came over to help me up.  I haven't yet learned how to get up without taking off at least one ski.

Mark called on the cell phone about 2:30 pm.  He had come over to check on us.  So he came up the Komomo lift, passing us as we made our way down.  Of course, he skis a lot fast that my speed so arrived at the bottom only a couple of minutes after we did.

It was very cold on the mountain, especially with the wind blowing.  The lift was going upward directly into the wind.  Knowing that it was going to be cold, I had dressed warmly and actually sweated.  But better to be hot that cold.  Connie loaned me a mask that could go under the helmet.  My goggles fogged over so I was glad to have the mask.

We left about 4:00 pm because of evening activities.  Connie had to drive about 40 mph because of the slick roads.  We were just grateful to get home safely.  A very positive experience!!!!!

Wednesday, January 15,  6:11 am

Well, folks.  Wednesday is here.  Mark and I are headed to Copper Mountain for a day of skiing with Connie, her son and his friends.  One of the radio stations is having a deal where we can get $11 lift tickets.  That's a deal that's too good to pass up.  Guess I'm going to have to learn how to ski.  Connie took me once last year--by the end of the day I wasn't falling down near as much.  I'm an expert at falling down.  Hopefully this time I'll master staying upright.  Hope you all have a fantastic day!!!

Monday, January 13, 4:29 pm

Virginia's Views #3 has been posted.

Monday, January 13, 7:42 am

This morning my blood pressure was better again.  It's been mostly in the normal range but not what I consider real good when taking it as the base resting level and considering I'm still on bp medication.  To make a long story short, the only thing I can think of that has changed is that I did manage to consume my half gallon of water yesterday plus other beverages.  I've been trying to get back to doing that.  This morning I'm tired considering I got up three times during the night as my body processed all that water.  Anyway, I wanted to share with you in case any of you are dealing with high blood pressure and would like to experiment with your water levels.

Sunday, January 12, 6:22 pm

I had to laugh at myself last night.  When I got dressed for church I couldn't find my belt.  All day, I felt like my underwear was rubbing my scar where it goes around my naval so it kind of rubs some on a waistline.  I dug out another belt and proceeded with the day.  When I was starting to undress I felt something odd underneath my clothes.  Upon investigation, I found my missing belt around my waist.  Then I remembered that I'd put the belt on me because the dress getting unwrinkled in the dryer.  I figured I'd not want to go downstairs again so took all my stuff upstairs.  And of course, I forgot that I had the belt on so put the dress on over it.

Connie wants me to go skiing on Wednesday at Copper Mountain.  Some radio station is having some kind of special where you register by email, they give you a number and then the list ticket is minimal.  Guess I'll check that out.  I'm a novice skier; Connie is very patient.  I'll appreciate your prayers for my well-being that day.  

Yesterday was a good day.  You probably wondered about the study we were going to do at cell group.  We will be going through Jack Hayford's The Heart of Praise.  This time we were prepared to discuss the first six chapters but only made it through the first three.   This book covers many examples of why and how we should praise God and the blessings that come from it.  Each chapter begins with a verse from the book of Psalms which gives an aspect of praise and ends with a prayer of praise.  I believe that our group will certainly benefit from this study.

Saturday, January 11, 7:18 am

Had a lovely day yesterday.  Went to my Friday Bible Study.   My original lunch plans fell through so I was able to accept an invitation to have lunch with Connie.  Whe hadn't had a chance to get together since she got back from the holidays a week ago.  Nice to be able to catch up.

Then Mark and I went shopping to Home Depot for some of those niggly repair parts.  We've been making a list of stuff that needs doing.  Like getting a new dimmer switch for the dining room.  It's been not dimming for about ten years.  Then we went out to eat with a coupon (brought leftovers home that we'll happily consume some time this weekend.  Then went to Walmart to buy a hot water bottle.  It helps my cold feet at night and my previous bottle sprung a leek at the end of last winter and didn't get replaced.  

Last night I took cayenne and seemed to be comfortably warm all night.  That's the latest home remedy I'm trying; they say it's good for high blood pressure and other things that ails a person.

Today is the day our small group Bible Study starts a new study.  This one is about praising God through worship.  This is a book with questions at the end of the short chapters.  We've always done workbook type studies.  So it will be interesting to see how "we" respond to a different study method.

I've made chili and corn bread to take to our pre-meeting lunch.  Usually the host cooks but this time we decided to have a pot luck.  It will be interesting to see what people bring.  

With that, I'm going to say "Have a wonderful, day in Christ's abundance!!"

Thursday, January 9, 7:31 am

This morning I awoke to find I seemed to have somehow injured what I assume is a muscle in my left arm.  I noticed my arm felt funny when I took my blood pressure last night.  Didn't investigated because I was tired.  It's both above and below my elbow.  I did some house cleaning yesterday but I didn't do anything real strenuous, especially with my left arm.   Guess it is just one of those strange things.

I've always had more of a sallow coloring than Mark; he's always been pinker.  With the problems I was having last year, I was more yellow than normal.  The other day, we noticed how pink I was, even pinker than He.  Although I think he was having an especially pale day (we've been fighting something that's going around), it was neat to see my pinkness.  Obviously shows that my kidneys are working correctly.  Plus I wondered if it is a result of having plenty of oxygen in my blood.

I've been doing a mental examination of hot flashes.  Trying to figure out if they come more often during stress.  I had a few days a couple of weeks ago when I didn't remember having any.  But I've come to realize they are still there but very very mild.   When I first got out of the hospital I noticed them at night.  Then there was a shift to morning.  Now it's shifted back to night.  I am grateful that I don't abnormally sweat very often.  I've noticed it a couple of times at a study I go to--another question of if there was some abnormal stress or something.  Why would I sweat on rare occasions at one particular location?  If anyone has any comments, please let me know.

Tuesday, January 7, 4:56 pm

It's only the 7th of January and I already feel behind.  But I'm determined not to let myself stress out but to take it one day at a time.  As you can see, Mark and I have been rearranging the files a little, splitting this year's journal from the 2002  entries.  

On Sunday, I posted Virginia's View #2  for the week of January 5th.

Saturday, January 4, 5:46 am

I woke up bright and early.  I thank God that my life allows me to take afternoon naps.  I've been up finishing the invitations to our next church Women's Ministry luncheon which will be at the end of the month.  I believe in the theory that people remember better if they have something in their hand with the information.  A friend and I arbitrarily decided that we will have a soup and salad luncheon rather than a regular pot luck.  I've volunteered to make  creamy potato vegetable.  We'll pretend its low calorie.  You know, food doesn't have calories if it is eaten at a social.  Ha, ha--smile!

I hope you all have a wonderful day.  I'm going back to bed to watch a class video.  If I doze off, that's okay, too.

Friday, January 3, 9:15 pm

I had a lovely day with my friend Dee.  Her son and his family brought her down from Fort Collins about noon and met me at my Friday Bible Study.  Nice of the whole family to come down; I was glad to meet them after years of hearing about Dee's children and grandchildren.  We went out for a loooooong lunch, enjoyed talking about all our mutual friends at Pleasant Valley.  Mark drove us to Castle Rock to meet Dee's friend who was going to take her down to Pueblo to visit there.  I sure appreciated Mark doing the driving in the evening traffic so I could enjoy talking instead of having to concentrate on driving.  Plus it was more fun to have someone to talk to on the drive home.

Wednesday, January 2, 7:05 am

I have started weekly letter called Virginia's Views with various thoughts I have on certain subjects.  There will be a different theme to each weekly message.  I don't want to call it a devotional.  I just want to share some ideas that don't quite fit into this journal.

Wednesday, January 1, 2003, 7:36 pm

Happy New Year!!!!  This is the day where we start learning not to write 2002 on our checks. (ha, Ha)

Mark and I were watching a rented movie this evening when suddenly several eggs hit our front window.  Fortunately it wasn't snowing out there.  Just a little nippy for cleaning.  I did the best I could; we'll have to go out in the morning to see if there is more.  Hopefully Mark's van didn't get it.  It's been years since we've had any vandalism.  So hopefully this was an abberation and won't become the norm.

I've been taking heavy naps nearly every afternoon.  "They" say that healing occurs during sleep.    I don't always sleep well at night; however, I've found that I don't sleep any better or worse by having napped.  So I figure that if i can nap, I might as well do so.

My friend, Dee Mercier, from Georgia called this evening.  She's visiting family here in Colorado and hopes to see me some time this week.  I do hope we can work it out.

Above is my new Journal for 2003Q1.  For all of my 2002 entries, in the file formerly known as "Virginia's Current Situation," click on the following link.

Virginia's Journal 2002Q4 aka vhealth.html